How can you be successful while negotiating an offer with a buyer and avoid lowering your bottom-line price? It's possible, depending on the buyer's priorities, and whether or not they're fair minded. It should not be a tug o' war.
If they're determined to buy your home at an unfair rock bottom price, there's not much you can do about it except to refuse to deal with them. Therefore, unless you're under duress, politely tell them to take a hike, or ...
After playing the game for a bit, maybe the buyer will ultimately agree to your terms. They may really, really want your home. Remember that given the right circumstances, it's sometimes possible to get the best terms of sale by being prepared to walk away from the negotiation table. However, you may lose them too.
If you're working with the guidance of a realty agent, and that agent possesses the requisite skills, they can ask
strategic questions of the buyer's agent and interpret their body
language and voice intonations to effectively advise you how far to press the buyer during negotiations. Of course, if you're selling solo, this is your personal responsibility. Thus, you better have the requisite skills, or learn them fast. To help in this regard, check out my book The Happy Agent.
Or maybe, another buyer will come along who values your home more, and happily agree to pay your price.
After much hope and great effort, attempts to sell your home may prove fruitless. Maybe, your expectations are unrealistic and should be objectively re-evaluated.
If the market fails to deliver your price, don't blame your agent or the market. All your agent can do is offer knowledgeable, honest advice and effectively expose your property to the open market. If the market disagrees with your lofty estimate of market value, you must accept that because ...
You might actually have to adjust your expectations and reduce your list price. Click here to learn more about when it's time to reduce.
negotiating an offer on behalf of a seller, in an attempt to reach a balance between the parties, I asked the buyer's agent
about their client's offer priorities. While explaining that my
seller wants to be fair and realistic, I would often ask the buyer's representative which single term is their client's most important - price, closing or conditions. These are usually the top three issues involved in real estate negotiation.
If it's price, I would recommend my seller counter the offer with the seller's preferred closing date and give a little on price. Conversely, if the buyer must have a particular possession date, maybe because their own home is sold firm with an inflexible closing date, or they've already given notice of vacating their rental apartment, then I used to advise my seller to agree (if possible) to the buyer's particular date. In exchange, we'd ask the buyer to agree to the seller's price, provided of course, that it's fair and reasonable.
If the buyer refuses to accept this price, then I'd suggest to the buyer's agent that their client improve their offer in some other manner. It could be removing one or more conditions, increasing the deposit, removing a requirement of the seller or deleting chattels or fixtures from the contract. Maybe, the buyer would agree to exclude the major appliances, hot tub, expensive light fixtures or maybe a gas fireplace insert. In other words, there are often options for negotiating an offer without lowering the price.
the end, if all else fails, maybe that particular buyer just isn't the next owner
of your home. Or maybe you're not motivated or realistic enough.
Unless you're in a strong seller's market, making unreasonable demands
usually proves unsuccessful. During normal balanced market conditions,
it's give and take. That's how to successfully negotiate a real estate
To learn more about negotiating an offer, including information about the real estate contract and real estate negotiation from a buyer's perspective, feel free to visit other pages on my website. For more tips on the selling process, visit CREA.
After you've digested all this information, you'll see that negotiating an offer really isn't that complicated, provided you have good guidance along the way, or the knowledge itself to go it alone.
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